Examples Of Psychotherapy

PSYCHOTHERAPY AND HOW CBT CAN HELP…

Some people want counselling, that’s a professional ‘listening ear’ and the space to ‘off-load’ and perhaps make more sense of a situation and to find a helpful way forward. Some prefer to go deeper and look at what ‘makes them tick’, take a look at the past and to reach a place of greater acceptance of themselves and others and that’s where Psychotherapy comes in, whilst some want to find techniques and methods to help them get over their current day problems – some, prefer all of the above. What I will do with your agreement, is find what best fits you and then we can go about setting towards reaching your goals for therapy in the most fitting way.
Most people have heard about counselling and psychotherapy, but need to know a bit more about what CBT is, I am qualified and experienced in all three approaches, but thought I would say a few words about CBT.

What Is CBT(Cognitive Behavioural Therapy)?

It is a way of talking about:

  • How you think about yourself, the world and other people
  • How what you do affects your thoughts and feelings.

  • CBT can help you to change how you think (‘Cognitive’) and what you do (‘Behaviour’). These changes can help you to feel better. Unlike some of the other talking treatments, it focuses on the ‘here and now’ problems and difficulties. Instead of focusing on the causes of your distress or symptoms in the past, it looks for ways to improve your state of mind now.

    When Does CBT Help?

    CBT has been shown to help with many different types of problems. These include anxiety, depression, panic, phobias (including agoraphobia and social phobia), stress, bulimia, obsessive-compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder and psychosis. CBT may also help if you have difficulties with anger, a low opinion of yourself or physical health problems, like pain or fatigue.

    How does CBT work?

    CBT can help you to make sense of overwhelming problems by breaking them down into smaller parts. This makes it easier to see how they are connected and how they affect you. These parts are:

  • A Situation – a problem, event or difficult situation. From this can follow:
  • Thoughts
  • Emotions
  • Physical feelings
  • Actions
  • Each of these areas can affect the others. How you think about a problem can affect how you feel physically and emotionally.

    All these areas of life can connect like this:

    What happens in one of these areas can affect all the others.

    There are helpful and unhelpful ways of reacting to most situations, depending on how you think about it. The way you think can be helpful – or unhelpful.

    An example: The Situation:

    You’ve had a bad day, feel fed up, so go out shopping. As you walk down the road, someone you know walks by and, apparently, ignores you. This starts a cascade of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors as can be seen, in the grid below:

     

    Unhelpful

    (Very often inaccurate ways of seeing a situation)

    Helpful

    (Often more realistic ways of seeing the situation)

    Thoughts: He/she ignored me, therefore they don’t like me He/she looks a bit wrapped up in themselves – I wonder if there’s something wrong?

    Emotional Feelings:

    Low, sad and rejected Concerned for the other person, positive

    Physical:

    Stomach cramps, low energy, feel sick None – feel comfortable

    Action:

    Go home and avoid them Get in touch to make sure they’re OK
    The same situation has led to two very different results – ‘Unhelpful’ and ‘Helpful’ – depending on how you thought about the situation.
    How you think has affected how you felt and what you did. In the example in the left-hand column, you’ve jumped to a conclusion without very much evidence for it – and this matters, because it’s led to:

  • Having a number of uncomfortable feelings
  • Behaving in a way that makes you feel worse.

  • If you go home feeling depressed, you’ll probably brood on what has happened and feel worse. If you get in touch with the other person, there’s a good chance you’ll feel better about yourself.

    If you avoid the other person, you won’t be able to correct any misunderstandings about what they think of you – and you will probably feel worse.

    This ‘vicious circle’ can make you feel worse. It can even create new situations that make you feel worse. You can start to believe quite unrealistic (and unpleasant) things about yourself. This happens because, when we are distressed, we are more likely to jump to conclusions and to interpret things in extreme and unhelpful ways.

    CBT can help you to break this vicious circle of altered thinking, feelings and behaviour. When you see the parts of the sequence clearly, you can change them – and so change the way you feel. CBT aims to get you to a point where you can ‘do it yourself’, and work out your own ways of tackling these problems.
    CBT can help you to change how you think (‘Cognitive’) and what you do (‘Behaviour’). These changes can help you to feel better. Unlike some of the other talking treatments, it focuses on the ‘here and now’ problems and difficulties. Instead of focusing on the causes of your distress or symptoms in the past, it looks for ways to improve your state of mind now.

    What does CBT involve?

    The sessions

    You will usually meet with me for between 6 and 20, weekly, sessions. Each session will last between 50-60 minutes, depending on preference. However, depending on you, the severity of your problem and the problems that you want to address, the number of sessions can vary widely. I have seen clients for 12 months and greater when a client wants to include counselling integrated with CBT.

  • In the first 2-4 sessions, I will check that you can use this sort of treatment and you will check that you feel comfortable with it.
  • I will also ask you questions about your past life and background. Although CBT concentrates on the here and now, at times you may need to talk about the past to understand how it is affecting you now.
  • You decide what you want to deal with in the short, medium and long term.
  • We will usually start by agreeing on what to discuss that day.
  • The work

  • I will help you to break each problem down into its separate parts, as in the example above. To help this process, I may ask you to keep a diary. This will help you to identify your individual patterns of thoughts, emotions, bodily feelings and actions.
  • Together we will look at your thoughts, feelings and behaviours to work out: If they are unrealistic or unhelpful and how they affect each other, and you.
  • I will then help you to work out how to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours.
  • It’s easy to talk about doing something, much harder to actually do it. So, after you have identified what you can change, I’ll recommend ‘homework’ – you practise these changes in your everyday life. Depending on the situation, you might start to:
  • Question a self-critical or upsetting thought and replace it with a more helpful (and more realistic) one that you have developed in CBT.
  • Recognise that you are about to do something that will make you feel worse and, instead, do something more helpful.
    At each meeting you discuss how you’ve got on since the last session. I will help with suggestions if any of the tasks seem too hard or don’t seem to be helping.
  • I will not ask you to do things you don’t want to do – you decide the pace of the treatment and what you will and won’t try.
  • The strength of CBT is that you can continue to practise and develop your skills even after the sessions have finished. This makes it less likely that your symptoms or problems will return.
  • How Effective Is CBT?
    It is one of the most effective treatments for conditions where anxiety or depression is the main problem. Additionally, it is useful when addressing OCD, panic, worry, phobias and relationship problems.
    It is the most effective psychological treatment for moderate and severe depression.
    It is as effective as antidepressants for many types of depression.
    What If Symptoms Come Back?
    There is always a risk that the anxiety or depression will return. If they do, your CBT skills should make it easier for you to control them. So, it is important to keep practising your CBT skills, even after you are feeling better. There is some research that suggests CBT may be better than antidepressants at preventing depression coming back. If necessary, you can have a “refresher” course.
    So What Impact Could CBT Have On My Life?
    Depression and anxiety are unpleasant. They can seriously affect your ability to work and enjoy life. CBT can help you to control the symptoms. It is unlikely to have a negative effect on your life, apart from the time you need to give up to do it.
    Ten Facts About CBT
    • Change: your thoughts and actions
    • Homework: practice makes perfect
    • Action: don’t just talk, do!
    • Need: pinpoint the problem
    • Goals: move towards them
    • Evidence: shows CBT can work
    • View: events from another angle
    • I can do it: self-help approach
    • Experience: test out your beliefs
    • Write it down: to remember progress