Psychotherapy and how CBT can help... - David Williams, MA, PG Dip. Psych. PG Dip. CBTDavid Williams, MA, PG Dip. Psych. PG Dip. CBT

Psychotherapy and how CBT can help…

Some people want counselling, that’s a professional ‘listening ear’ and the space to ‘off-load’ and perhaps make more sense of a situation and to find a helpful way forward. Some prefer to go deeper and look at what ‘makes them tick’, take a look at the past and to reach a place of greater acceptance of themselves and others and that’s where Psychotherapy comes in, whilst some want to find techniques and methods to help them get over their current day problems – some, prefer all of the above. What I will do with your agreement, is find what best fits you and then we can go about setting towards reaching your goals for therapy in the most fitting way.

Most people have heard about counselling and psychotherapy, but need to know a bit more about what CBT is, I am qualified and experienced in all three approaches, but thought I would say a few words about CBT:

It is a way of talking about:

CBT can help you to change how you think (‘Cognitive’) and what you do (‘Behaviour’). These changes can help you to feel better. Unlike some of the other talking treatments, it focuses on the ‘here and now’ problems and difficulties. Instead of focusing on the causes of your distress or symptoms in the past, it looks for ways to improve your state of mind now.

CBT has been shown to help with many different types of problems. These include: anxiety, depression, panic, phobias (including agoraphobia and social phobia), stress, bulimia, obsessive compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder and psychosis. CBT may also help if you have difficulties with anger, a low opinion of yourself or physical health problems, like pain or fatigue.

CBT can help you to make sense of overwhelming problems by breaking them down into smaller parts. This makes it easier to see how they are connected and how they affect you. These parts are:

Each of these areas can affect the others. How you think about a problem can affect how you feel physically and emotionally.

All these areas of life can connect like this:

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What happens in one of these areas can affect all the others.

There are helpful and unhelpful ways of reacting to most situations, depending on how you think about it. The way you think can be helpful – or unhelpful.

An example: The Situation:

You’ve had a bad day, feel fed up, so go out shopping. As you walk down the road, someone you know walks by and, apparently, ignores you. This starts a cascade of:

Thoughts: He/she ignored me – they don’t like me He/she looks a bit wrapped up in themselves – I wonder if there’s something wrong?
Low, sad and rejected Concerned for the other person, positive
Physical: Stomach cramps, low energy, feel sick None – feel comfortable
Action: Go home and avoid them Get in touch to make sure they’re OK

The same situation has led to two very different results – ‘Unhelpful’ and ‘Helpful’ – depending on how you thought about the situation.

How you think has affected how you felt and what you did. In the example in the left hand column, you’ve jumped to a conclusion without very much evidence for it – and this matters, because it’s led to:

If you go home feeling depressed, you’ll probably brood on what has happened and feel worse. If you get in touch with the other person, there’s a good chance you’ll feel better about yourself.

If you avoid the other person, you won’t be able to correct any misunderstandings about what they think of you – and you will probably feel worse.

This ‘vicious circle’ can make you feel worse. It can even create new situations that make you feel worse. You can start to believe quite unrealistic (and unpleasant) things about yourself. This happens because, when we are distressed, we are more likely to jump to conclusions and to interpret things in extreme and unhelpful ways.

CBT can help you to break this vicious circle of altered thinking, feelings and behaviour. When you see the parts of the sequence clearly, you can change them – and so change the way you feel. CBT aims to get you to a point where you can ‘do it yourself’, and work out your own ways of tackling these problems.

The sessions

You will usually meet with me for between 6 and 20, weekly, sessions. Each session will last between 50-55 minutes. However, depending on you, the severity of your problem and the problems that you want to address, the number of sessions can vary widely. I have seen clients for 12 months and greater when a client wants to include counselling integrated with CBT.

The work

  • Question a self-critical or upsetting thought and replace it with a more helpful (and more realistic) one that you have developed in CBT
  • Recognise that you are about to do something that will make you feel worse and, instead, do something more helpful.

It is one of the most effective treatments for conditions where anxiety or depression is the main  problem. Additionally, it is useful when addressing OCD, panic, worry, phobia’s and relationship problems.

It is the most effective psychological treatment for moderate and severe depression.

It is as effective as antidepressants for many types of depression.

There is always a risk that the anxiety or depression will return. If they do, your CBT skills should make it easier for you to control them. So, it is important to keep practising your CBT skills, even after you are feeling better. There is some research that suggests CBT may be better than antidepressants at preventing depression coming back. If necessary, you can have a “refresher” course.

Depression and anxiety are unpleasant. They can seriously affect your ability to work and enjoy life. CBT can help you to control the symptoms. It is unlikely to have a negative effect on your life, apart from the time you need to give up to do it.

Ten facts about CBT: